You’re on your way to enjoying a fantastic Bridal Shower.
All About the Bride
The big day is almost here and things can get a little stressful and hectic. Planning a
wedding can take up months of a bride's life and can leave her feeling more relief to get the day
over with than excitement for the day to come. Because of this, it is important for the bride to
take a day off. A day to relax, eat cake, spend time with friends and family, play games and
receive some gifts. Throwing a great bridal shower will be just what the bride needs to regain
some of her sanity after months of wedding planning. Gig Salad has everything you need to
help you plan the perfect Bridal Shower.
Usually the maid of honor, bridesmaid, mother or sister will be responsible for throwing
the bride her bridal shower. It does not all have to fall on one person though. It is actually a
good idea to have two or three people assist in the planning and covering costs. You should
allow yourself about 6-8 weeks to plan the shower. Some of the first things you need to work
out: What kind of party will this be? Formal or casual? Where will it be hosted? Your home,
someone else's home, a restaurant, a park, etc? Will there be a theme? Sometimes it can be
fun to have a gift theme; such as, lingerie, travel items or kitchen ware. Once you have these
basics nailed down, send out the invitations as quickly as possible. Purchase generic ones and
fill them out or have specialty invitations printed that match the theme or colors you have chosen. This is
a special day to be shared with people that are special to the bride, so have her help with the
Entertain (and Maybe Embarrass) Her
Primarily, bridal showers are about both relaxing and getting gifts that are both fun and
useful for the bride and groom. However, it is also important that everyone, both the bride
and the guests, have a lot of fun. The most popular form of entertainment for a bridal shower
are games. There are lots of resources online with lists and lists of different games to play.
It's important to choose games that match your bride's personality. If she's a shy person
by nature, don't pick the games that will embarrass her and make her uncomfortable. If the
bride does not want games at all and wants the shower to be more of a party, then book
entertainment. For a larger party, you might want to hire a jazz band, classical ensemble or strolling violinist to provide background music as your guests mingle.
It would also be interesting to hire an impersonator of one of the bride's favorite celebrities for a meet
and greet and to take photos with the guests. If the location for the shower is appropriate for it,
perhaps you could hire a comedian or
hypnotist to put on a short show for the
For a smaller bridal shower with just a handful of guests, you might instead want to consider
something other than a party. Take the bride and small group to the spa for the day, go antique
shopping or maybe even plan an entire weekend out of town somewhere the bride loves or has
always wanted to visit. Really, it all comes down to what the bride wants, so it's a good idea to
keep her involved.
Filling in the Details
No matter why time of day you have chosen for the shower, you must provide refreshments.
Of course, the most important food to be present is the cake. Hire a cake decorator to design a cake that
matches the theme or wedding colors. If the time of the shower lands between meals, then
cake may be all you need in regards to snacks, but be sure to provide beverages as well or
an alternative treat for those crazy guests that might not like cake. If budget allows, have the
shower over a meal and hire a caterer
to plan the menu and a wait staff
to handle all the work involved. If the caterer does not provide a bar service and you do
want drinks provided, you might want to hire a bartender to serve cocktails, wine or champagne. Or to spice things up a
little, hire a flair bartender
! The guests can be entertained by juggling, flipping and magic tricks while also enjoying
professionally mixed drinks!
Once you have all your ideas and plans in place, it is time start putting them into
action. Set the scene with some great decorations that match the theme you've chosen, or if there is no theme, then just
decor or flowers that match
the wedding colors. It is also a good idea to provide some sort of party favors to give to the guests as a thank you for their
attendance and contribution to the bride's special day. Some good favors for a bridal shower
would be candy, candles, picture frames or for smaller gatherings, something personalized for
each guest. One fun idea is to have each guest take a picture with the bride-to-be and have a
copy of the picture for both the bride and for the guest. You could have the photos printed on
the spot, perhaps in a photo
booth style set up, or just have them printed after the shower and the bride can send
each picture to the guest with their thank you card. You can handle all the picture taking
yourself, assign it to another guest, or for a bigger event, you may want to hire a photographer to be there so that
everyone can focus on the fun and no one has to worry about capturing it all through a lens.
If all of this sounds like a lot to take on, you could always hire a party planner to handle it for you. However,
with the right resources, and maybe a little help from friends, you can do it yourself and have a
lot of fun doing it! Gig Salad is here to help you every step of the way as your one stop shop for
all your Bridal Shower planning needs!