Author / Motivational Speaker

Prior to becoming the confident, comfortable, and content person I am today, I was feeling lost, alone, and disconnected from myself.
I was led by fear.
I never felt good enough, smart enough, talented enough, man enough.
A few years ago, I was in a dark place… I had spent 15 years in an unhealthy long-term relationships... looking to find my happiness through someone else…
I spent over 19 years working in a job that was not fulfilling…
I was drifting, going through the motions of life with no passion, motivation, drive, or purpose.
I just existed…
Until it finally hit me… I finally realized that nothing externally could complete me… not another person, a relationship, a bigger TV…
That the only person responsible for my happiness was me. And that realization caused me to make a really important choice.
I realized it was time to take responsibility for myself, my actions, my life.
I was done:
- Making excuses.
- Continuing to allow myself to be taken advantage of in relationships.
- Feeling insecure, or less of a man, for wanting to express my emotions.
- Pleasing others while my own needs were shoved aside.
- Relying on others to bring me happiness.
- Fearing life.
So, I made the commitment to transforming myself, my happiness, my life. And, in turn, I want to serve and help others do the same. Together we become stronger individuals.