Date night with the hubby
Papal visit
Celebrating a friend's book release
Ashantai and Nichelé's wedding
Crossing the Brooklyn Bridge
Being goofy in Paris
My cousin and I at a Mets game
My youngest daughter and I
My eldest daughter, my only son and I
Getting ready to perform a wedding
I create personalized wedding ceremonies that feel meaningful, polished, and unforgettable. Whether you’re planning an intimate elopement or a large celebration, I work closely with each couple to craft a ceremony that reflects their story, values, and vision for the day.
My approach is warm, professional, and intentional — blending heartfelt storytelling, calm guidance, and thoughtful details to create a ceremony your guests will genuinely remember. From customized vows to elevated keepsake options, every experience is designed with care, authenticity, and attention to detail.
4 reviews
Nicole S.
July 22, 2026Alexis was a DREAM! We booked her very short notice and she was quick to respond and a pleasure to work with ! She looked beautiful and was loving and kind and the ceremony was exactly what we asked for , would highly recommend her for your special day ☺️
Hired as: Wedding Officiant
Milena N.
July 7, 2026It was fine
Hired as: R&B Vocalist, Wedding Officiant
R &.
April 27, 2025Alexis was magnificent. Communication was easy and very effective. She had beautiful script for our wedding, respected our beliefs and traditions and superseded our expectations. Furthermore she was a dream to have as our officiant and we are forever grateful she ensured our wedding was magical. She’s a honorable, dependable, great mom and a proud vet. Thank you for your service and even more thank you for being who you are. It was an absolute pleasure!!!
Hired as: Wedding Officiant
Alexis Khadijah
You and your new husband were the real blessings in all of this. You were in time, kind, understanding and such warm, beautiful souls. Thank you for trusting me with such an important day. It was truly an honor working with you for your special day. 💕
Ashantai H.
May 21, 2024Alexis was in contact with me from the beginning, she was very thorough and did an amazing job marrying my wife and I. She’s very knowledgeable, thorough and is choose her again if I could ! She also gifted us which was very sweet of her.
Hired as: Wedding Officiant
Alexis Khadijah
Thank you Ashantai. You and your family were wonderful to work with. Thank you so much for trusting me with such an important and intimate part of your lives. Blessings to all of you my sister. 💕
Price range: $700 and up
Languages: English
Couples and guests can expect a ceremony experience that feels warm, engaging, intentional, and deeply personal. I believe the best ceremonies are not only beautiful, but memorable — moments where people feel genuinely connected to the love being celebrated.
My approach is calm, professional, and adaptable to the energy of each couple and their guests. Whether your vision is elegant and sophisticated, heartfelt and emotional, lighthearted and joyful, or a blend of everything in between, I work to create an atmosphere that feels authentic to you.
Most importantly, I strive to make couples feel supported, seen, and fully present in one of the most meaningful moments of their lives.
Born and raised in New York City, I believe life’s most meaningful moments deserve to be treated with care, intention, and authenticity. My approach to officiating is grounded in connection, compassion, professionalism, and the understanding that every couple deserves a ceremony that genuinely reflects who they are.
My background includes service in the U.S. Navy, healthcare, emergency medical response, and customer service-centered professions that taught me how to remain calm, attentive, and present during important moments in people’s lives. I also hold undergraduate degrees in Sociology and Liberal Arts, which continue to shape the thoughtful, people-centered approach I bring to every ceremony.
As a wife, mother, and advocate for the neurodivergent community, I deeply value love, resilience, partnership, and the beauty found in real-life relationships. Whether I am officiating an intimate ceremony or a larger celebration, my goal is always the same: to create an experience that feels personal, meaningful, polished, and unforgettable.
For the best ceremony experience, clear communication between the couple, venue, planner, DJ, and officiant is appreciated prior to the wedding date. A professional sound system with microphone access is strongly recommended for larger ceremonies to ensure guests can comfortably hear the ceremony.
Please provide:
• Final ceremony timeline
• Venue address and parking information
• Marriage license prior to ceremony
• Contact information for day-of coordinator or designated point person
• Access to ceremony space 30–45 minutes prior to start time
For outdoor ceremonies, couples should consider weather accommodations, amplification, and guest seating arrangements when applicable.
Additional coordination and travel accommodations may apply depending on location, timing, and ceremony complexity.
Friday
Wedding Ceremony
3:00pm - 4:00pm
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Union Dale, PA
Wednesday
Wedding Ceremony
4:00pm - 4:15pm
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Bay Shore, NY
Friday
Wedding Ceremony
5:00pm - 5:15pm
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Cutchogue, NY
Saturday
Wedding Ceremony
4:00pm - 4:30pm
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New York City, NY
Saturday
Wedding Ceremony
4:00pm - 5:00pm
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Bronx, NY
Saturday
Funeral/Memorial Service
12:30pm - 12:45pm
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Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
Friday
Wedding Ceremony
5:30pm - 6:00pm
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Brooklyn, NY
• Microphone and sound amplification recommended for medium to large ceremonies • Small table or designated area for ceremony materials and marriage license
• Reserved seating or standing area for officiant prior to ceremony start • Access to ceremony space 30–45 minutes before guest arrival when possible • Coordination with planner, DJ, photographer, and/or venue coordinator for ceremony timing and flow
• Water access appreciated for outdoor or extended ceremonies • Weather accommodations recommended for outdoor ceremonies
Wedding Officiant