Anita Charlot specializes in empowering and teaching women how to attract and maintain authentic relationships. With over 17 years as an empowerment speaker, a dating and relationship coach, the founder of an online relationship school and an author, Anita provides a unique combination of coaching programs, workshops and retreats that help her clients and her audiences attract the quality of life and love that they want.
By sharing tidbits of her own experiences; from being a domestic abuse survivor to a single mom to finding the courage and the strength to start her very own coaching company all while attracting the man that is "purrfectly imperfect" for her, she transforms many.
I have been in an unhealthy relationship for the past 8 years. I say unhealthy because of my insecurities that has caused a strain in my relationship. Anita really made me realize my worth and taught me different exercises to implement with my significant other. I have seen a difference in my relationship. Her advice was so helpful and I love that she speaks from her own experiences.
Thanks to Anita, everyday I strive to be a SAFI (Strong and Fiercely Independent Women).
Response from Anita Charlot:
Thanks Cindy! It was such a pleasure working with you at this year's retreat. I'm so very glad to hear that you were able to immediately implement the communication strategies and exercises to help improve the quality of your relationship. That was such a SAFI thing to do!!!!
After spending some time listening and talking with Anita about my personal relationships, my interactions now with my wife have never been better! We now communicate much more effectively, regained our mutual respect for one other, and have fallen in love all over again! She did a fantastic job at helping me understand my shortcomings, control my emotions, and appreciate my life partner more. She is awesome!
Anita has beautiful timing and efficient skills with her advice because she has the ability to communicate with valid reasoning on any type of relationship situation. Her speed and efficiency is an inspirational example to others including myself. Her organization appreciates this dignified demeanor of her company and she possesses extremely strong interpersonal and professional skills. The utilization of these skills to the optimum level is evident from her performance. I have been single for over a year now and wanted to truly seek advice as to how I can remain assertive, keep my integrity, and be in a healthy and loving relationship. Anita is dependable and possesses strong leadership and problem-solving skills. She exudes self confidence and is such a positive light to any situation. I am truly happy I know her and I am blessed to be in a fun-loving committed relationship now with just a few magic tips she shared with me. <3
Response from Anita Charlot:
WHAT A SUCCESS STORY!!!! Thank you so much for sharing. You are living proof that learning relationship building skills does not mean that you have to stop being the SAFI that you are. A little adaptation is all that's needed...and you worked it in your favor.
Looking forward to your attendance at future events.
Price Range: Contact for rates
Gig Length: 45 - 240 minutes
What to Expect
Inspiring... Engaging... Candid... Enlightening... Friendly ... a huge asset ... one-of-a-kind speaker... are some of the words used to describe Anita Charlot. Anita provides a unique combination of Metaphysical principals together with over 25 years of collective business operations, administrative process re-engineering, deliberate marketing solutions, and military and personal transformation experiences to the benefit of all of her clients. Anita openly shares her spirit with those that come into her vibration; whether in person, online or through her writing with the hope that her life experiences will serve as a catalyst for others to learn from her past. Anita’s story is a testament that it doesn’t matter where you come from or what you’ve been through; if you want better for your life, then you can have it. The choice is yours!
“Inspiring, engaging, candid, and honest one-of-a-kind speaker” are just some of the words used to describe Anita M. Charlot.
Since 1999 Anita has been teaching, coaching and helping to transform women’s lives through their dating and relationship experiences. Her own relationship “failures” allow her to hear what her students and clients are "NOT" saying; her gift assists women to grow through their fears and insecurities, so they can begin to attract and maintain the relationships that are "perfectly imperfect" for them, whether personal, familial, or professional.
Anita is a solutions-oriented certified relationship coach whose passion is empowering and teaching women how to attract and maintain authentic relationships. Whether you are single, in a relationship, married, or divorced, Anita can help you attract, maintain, improve, and even revive relationships and marriages that have lost their spark. She is known for the saying: “Every Dating Situation is Not a Potential Relationship, and Every Relationship is Not a Potential Marriage.” Intuitively, she is an expert in helping you to exactly identify what type of relationship situation you’re in and what to do about it.
How did she decide to become a dating and relationship coach? As a domestic abuse survivor and a reformed “strong and fiercely independent (and perpetually single) woman,” she was determined to understand the how and the why of her negative experiences. Anita searched high and low for the perfect therapist/coach/clergy to assist her in growing through her pain and helping her find the confidence to open up to love again. She then recognized a gap that she could fill by becoming a coach that was not afraid to share her experiences to serve as an example of what was possible for the women who were truly ready to do the work and bring about a change in their lives.
Anita readily shares her good and bad experiences with those that come into her vibration, whether in person, online or through her writing. Her ability to reflect and learn from her experience, coupled with her expert coaching skills, makes her uniquely qualified to help women break through limiting beliefs, eliminate destructive or self-sabotaging patterns, and uncover blocks and negative mindsets that keep them tied to the same type of men in different clothing.
She offers individual and group programs and workshops, both online and in-person. Additionally, she offers courses, books, and products that effectively teach women (and men) how to build and maintain authentic relationships. Anita is a metaphysician, author, empowerment speaker, and a solutions-oriented dating and relationship coach dedicated to teaching others how to build and design their relationships according to their truth. Over the past two decades, Anita has coached thousands of women from all walks of life via all types of methods. Per Anita, [coaching] “has been the most rewarding thing I could have done as it has forced me to continue to grow every day, not just for me, but for my clients as well.”
Anita holds a B.S. in Metaphysics from The American Institute of Holistic Theology, with a focus on Interpersonal Relationships. She specializes in practical and spiritual solutions-oriented programs and products that assist women in attracting and maintaining authentic connections in their personal and professional lives.
Anita continues to be an industry leader in providing workshop facilitation, keynote addresses, empowerment talks, weekend retreats, and VIP sessions. Participants have included spiritual and educational institutions, small business owners, corporate and social organizations, and individuals. Each session empowers all to live truthfully and connect authentically. People often ask how she continues to look so young. She shamelessly shares this secret: when faced with life’s challenges and the “perceived emergencies” of others she lives by her motto…It’s NOT Worth The Wrinkle!™
If you are looking for a speaker to connect to the emotions of the women in the audience, touch their hearts, build their confidence and give them the tools they can use immediately to begin to attract the quality of life and love that they REALLY want, then book Anita for your next engagement today!!!
Additional Booking Notes
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Past Booked Events
|May 19, 2017–May 21, 2017 • 12:00pm - 4:00pm||Women's Conference - Indianapolis, I|
|February 27, 2017 • 4:00pm - 5:00pm||NY - Strategy Meeting|
|February 25, 2017 • 12:00pm - 1:00pm||WhenWomenQuit 2017 Telesummit|
|February 10, 2017 • 8:00pm - 9:00pm||How to Determine the Dating Potential in <10 Mins|
|January 13, 2017–January 16, 2017 • 4:00pm - 12:00pm||Girl's Weekend Retreat - Cincinnati, Ohio|
|Angeline Marshall||Administrative Assistant|
Influences & Inspiration
Some of the major experiences in my life that have influenced the woman I am today are:
- Being a Domestic Abuse Survivor
- Being a single mom of two beautiful boys
- Having healed from many devastating experiences
- Having had my heart broken numerous times
- Having to find the strength to get up and keep on moving in spite of friends or family support
- And so much more
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